Some says when your heart and soul gets broken terribly into pieces, you have to let it heal fully.
Yes, I agree. It takes time.
But how do we know when is the time that the heart has been fully healed?
Only time can tell they say?
Realistically, what time???
Time heals all wound but actually for the real broken ones, its different
Only true love heals a broken heart.
And when she does find you extra special, you will be asked by her this big question.
Are you scared of me?
And I'm glad to hear your answer that you are not.
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So how do we go about this?
Teach her how to love herself once more.
Let her know her worth and how much you value her.
Let her embrace what and who she is as a whole.
Teach her to see herself differently from how she does.
Let her see what it is you see: the beauty in her brokenness.
Embrace her scars, her pain. See the beauty in it. Embrace and love each and every broken piece of her. Let her heart know of yours as home. Let it find comfort in yours
Don’t judge her. She isn’t perfect. But you will find out that she has the most amazing kind of love to give you because she knows what to do and what has been through.
Take your time with her. She doesn't even need all the grandiose or fancy things. All she needs to know is that you care. Be more than a stronghold for her heart. Be it’s protector. And never be threatened by her past.
In your embrace, let her feel tiny, but safe. Let her feel more than secure. Let her heart feel secure.
Don’t tell her how much you love her only to break her heart. Don’t light up her world only to leave it cold and dark.
To love a woman at all, is a beautiful thing. Then, to love a woman with a broken heart, a broken soul, or a broken smile is an art and a beauty of its own. It’s in the way that she loves you back, needs you and the way she tells you, or doesn’t, that is so intriguing. You can’t help wanting to love her more.
Loving someone who is broken is also loving someone who once believed in so many things. Loving someone who's torn between two worlds, meaning, loving someone who knows how to give all her heart and can truly be happy and it shines, because for a second in that moment she forgot she let her guard down, but also knowing she will put her guard back up.
To love a broken heart is like having your own heart being broken a little. To love someone who is broken is to break a little yourself. But if love meant no hurt, no scars and no pain; then what would the point of that love even be? Because there is a beauty about being broken and there is a beauty about loving someone who is broken. You both break a little inside; and that’s what makes you whole.
Those small gestures means a lot to her.
The short calls, the hello's, even to simpliest emojis you send her.
Hold on to her. That is not being unfair to you.
It takes a big hearted man to do it and realize that.
But it's gonna be worth it.
I can tell you one thing, though, never give up, because that girl will love you more than you could ever imagine and if you leave you'll never get to feel that.
Love,
M
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